Free Write: The Space in Between the Transformation

Excerpt: When you feel like you’re going in reverse in your life but situations and people around you are no longer serving you- sometimes it requires a reset.

I guess this is what life is about. The ups, the downs. Feeling inexplicably happy to feeling uncontrollably sad. Uncertainty about the future and reflecting on the past. However, the one thing that no one tells you about is the space in between.

The space In which you’re not quite living your future but your present has now become an abrupt past.

The space where you once spent your nights alone, being at peace with your independence. A space in which you could reflect on any memory, feeling and event- without the overflowing feeling of being heard.

This space has seen, heard and felt many points within my life.

This transformation is something that comes with much confusion and uneasiness.

Removing items that have created tremendous amounts of sentiment from the past is like shedding layers of a previous life.

The space in between this has surfaced many memories. The good, the bad and the mediocre.

Feeling a void; is an empty space that this space in between has created. Mustering up feelings of sadness, guilt, regret and shame.

I guess this is what the space in between is meant to do. Make you feel these emotions at such a deep level, to which you can try to understand your next steps.

Here’s the thing with the space in between. As you move through this phase in life, you leave behind so much; yet you are also welcoming so much more.

You just need to know how to get through and grow through the things you go through, along the way.

I think the space in between is there to help these transformations. It is a lesson to reflect on the things you’ve accomplished in your life, versus the tough times you’ve battled through.

This space in between is here to help you introduce the possibility of a newer, better, brighter future.

One where the confusion, uncertainty and sadness are eradicated by the feeling of success, liberation and overall growth.

This space in between is just a check point in your journey. The space in between, introduces you to your transformation.

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